You know that moment when you try to slip into your favorite jeans, and suddenly they feel a little... off? Not in a cute way, more like a “oh no, this is awkward” way. And then you start questioning everything. Did the laundry shrink them? Or is it just that your body decided to, well, change on you? Spoiler alert: it’s not just you—it’s normal. Bodies evolve. They shift. And guess what? That’s the magic of being human. So, let’s talk about how to embrace those changes and give your wardrobe a little makeover to keep up with it all.

1. Look for Clothes That Fit Rather Than Size

Forget the size on the label—focus on how the garment actually fits your body. Look for items that fit comfortably in the areas that tend to change the most (like the waist, hips, or chest). Instead of worrying about squeezing into something that’s “supposed” to fit, choose clothing that adjusts to your current shape. Look for items with stretchy or adjustable elements like elastic waistbands, drawstrings, or knit fabrics that can adapt to your body's fluctuations.

2. Go for Clothes That Drape Nicely

Instead of clothing that clings or cuts off in weird places, look for pieces that drape over your body naturally. Fabrics like rayon, linen, and soft cottons can flow beautifully and give you some breathing room, no matter where your body is at. These fabrics don’t pull or pinch, and they add a relaxed, elegant vibe that works with your changing shape, not against it. A good example? A drapey blouse or a midi skirt that doesn’t hug too tight but still flatters your figure.

3. Embrace Adjustable Fits (Think Wraps and Ties)

Pieces with adjustable elements (like wrap dresses, tie-waist pants, or belts) give you the flexibility to adjust your clothing as needed. These styles are especially great if you're in a transitional phase and don’t want to invest in a full wardrobe overhaul. A wrap dress or top, for example, allows you to control how snug or loose it fits, and a tie-waist skirt lets you play with the fit at your waistline without feeling restricted.

4. Opt for Elasticity and Stretch Fabrics

Stretch fabrics are your best friend when your body is changing. Look for clothing made from materials like jersey, spandex, or anything with a bit of Lycra. These fabrics have the magic ability to stretch and move with your body, allowing for comfort and flexibility, especially if you’re in between sizes or dealing with fluctuating measurements. From leggings to dresses to fitted tops, these fabrics give you room to breathe while maintaining structure.

5. Focus on Layering Pieces

When you're not quite sure how a particular item fits, layering is a game changer. Adding layers like cardigans, blazers, or open shirts can help balance out the shape and create the illusion of a more tailored fit. Plus, layering allows you to adjust how tight or loose your clothes feel based on the temperature or your comfort level that day. A flowy tank with a structured blazer, or a tunic paired with leggings, creates a chic and flattering silhouette while accommodating any body changes.

So, if your wardrobe isn’t quite fitting your body the way it used to, don’t stress. This is your chance to hit refresh. You’re not losing anything; you’re just making space for clothes that actually fit your current vibe. It’s all about embracing the change, letting go of what no longer works, and stepping into styles that make you feel like you. Your body is always changing, and your clothes should, too. 

Till next time, 

Dre